THE SECRET OF LOVE

THE FIRST SECRET ----The Power of Thought. Love begins
with our thoughts. We become what we think about.
Lovingthoughts create loving experiences and loving
relationships.Affirmations can change our beliefs and
thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love
someone, we need to consider their needs and desires.
Thinking about your ideal partner will help you
recognize him or her when you meet him or her.

THE SECOND SECRET ----The Power of Respect.You cannot love
anyone or anything unless you first respect them.
The first person you need to respect is yourself. To
begin to gainself-respect ask yourself: "What do I
respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even
those you may dislike, ask yourself: "What do I respect
about them?"

THE THIRD SECRET ----The Power of Giving.If you want
to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The
more love you give, the more you will receive. To love
is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally.
Practice random acts of kindness.Before committing to
a relationship ask not what the other person will be
able to give to you, but rather what will you be able
to give them.The secret formula of a happy, lifelong,
loving relationship is to always focus on what you can
give instead of what you can take.

THE FOURTH SECRET ----The Power of Friendship.To find
a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love
does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but
rather looking outward together in the same direction.
To love someone completely you must love them for who
they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the
soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to
bring love into arelationship, you must first bring
friendship.

THE FIFTH SECRET ----The Power of Touch.Touch is one
of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking
down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes
our physical and emotional states and makes us more
receptive to love.

THE SIXTH SECRET ----The Power of Letting Go."If you
love something, set it free. If it comes back to you
it's yours,if it doesn't it never was." Even in a
loving relationship, people need their own space. If we
want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive
and let go of past hurts, and grievances. Love means
letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and
conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past
has no power over me-today is the beginning of a
newlife."

THE SEVENTH SECRET ----The Power of Communication.When
we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life
changes. To love someone is to communicate with them.
Let the people you love know thatyou love them and
appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those
three magic words: "I Love You." Never let an
opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave
someone you love with a loving word - it could be the
last time you see them. If you were about to die but
could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who
would you call, what wouldyou say and... why are you
waiting?

THE EIGHTH SECRET ----The Power of Commitment.If you
want to have love in abundance, you must be committed
to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your
thoughts and actions.Commitment is the true test of
love. If you want to have lovingrelationships, you
must be committed to loving relationships. When you are
committed to someone or something, quitting is never
an option.Commitment distinguishes a fragile
relationship from a strong one.

THE NINTH SECRET ----The Power of Passion.Passion
ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does
not come through physical attraction alone, it comes
from deep commitment,enthusiasm, interest and
excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past
experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity
and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and
happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live
each day with passion.

THE TENTH SECRET ----The Power of Trust.Trust is
essential in all loving relationships. Without it one
person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the
other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated.
You cannot love someone completely unless you trust
them completely. Act as if your relationship with
the person you love will never end. One of the ways you
can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask
yourself: "Do I trust them completely and
unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", then you must
think verycarefully before you make any type of a commitment.

Are you inlove ? ♥

Here are 12 reason for you to know if your really in love. Check this out:

TWELVE:
When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

ELEVEN:
You walk really slow when you're with them.

TEN:
You feel shy whenever they're around.

NINE:
You smile when you hear their voice.

EIGHT:
When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.

SIX:
They're all you think about.

FIVE:
You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.

FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just to see them.

THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number seven was missing

ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself

If you all have those 12 reasons NO DOUBT your perfectly INLOVE..♥♥♥

Love and Friendship

Personally I value and love my friends. I could not be me without having all of them in my life. They say most people walk in and out of you life. But only True friends leave footprints in your heart. I wanna share with you this inspiring quotes I read, it made me think and wonder where are my friends now. Where ever they are I pray for there safety and happiness.

• Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

• Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
• Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
• You can only go as far as you push.
• Actions speak louder than words.
• The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
• Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
• Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.
• A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.
• If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
• When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there
• True friendship never ends.
• Friends are forever.
• Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
• Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
• What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
• NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
• Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.

Everyone we meet seems special to us, we may not realize it, even those people who we get mad sometimes.

When we look back on our younger years, we will remember the people who went to school with us, the people who made us laugh, the people who hung out with us when nobody else would, and the people who made our lives much better simply by being a part of it.

There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.

The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have.

A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever.

For every second spent in anger, a minute of happiness is wasted. So when ever you get a chance tell you friends that you care.

Chai love's my blog ♥

weeh.. Rosavi a.k.a "Chai" Montero give me this award!...Akalain mo naman love niya blog ko!..so happy and speech less..haha..Maraming-maraming salamat your such a good friend!.. love u chai the bad gurl.. hmmm the angel pala..haha..

I'm passing this award to all readers of this blog.If you love it then grab it...weehh.. luv yah all..

Maka Relate ka Promise!

why do we love ba? hmmm... think!

so we can have somebody to talk to?

someone who can be there pag gusto natin gumala?

a person na pwedeng manlibre satin?

taong magbibitbit ng gamit mo? ALALAY for short!

eh pano kung di ka nya mahal? would you still love him/her?

would you still continue to care for that person?

bakit naman hinde? you didnt love that person para magkaroon ka ng alalay, magkaroon ka ng instant meal dahil libre, taong gagawa ng assignments mo or projects, or taong mahihila mo if you want to go out...

If thats what you think about love well sorry ang BABAW mo! loving a person doesn't need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo, dapat mabait or understanding, kasi once you fall inlove you take the risk of accepting dat person kahit maingay sya matulog, yung hilik ng hilik kahit matakaw sya o sobrang fat na hindi kayo kasya pag puno ang jeep!

kahit sobrang moody nya na kulang na lang ay sapakin mo sa inis! yung sobrang selosa/seloso na pati barkada pinagseselosan..

badtrip diba? and yung napaka-arte OA kung baga! o kahit ano pang things that would turn you off...hirap tlaga magmahal trying to be PERFECT kase.Gusto mong magtagal pero hindi yun ang sagot sa lahat... ACCEPTING the real person fully kase if you said na mahal mo sya you dont need to find answers kung bakit mo sya mahal...

kase lahat ng tao nagbabago but if you accept that person magbago man sya in the middle of your relationship hindi ka masasaktan kase you know that darating din yun.. tsaka tanggap mo sya ng buo... mahirap gawin pero masarap subukan dahil wala ng sasaya pa if you let one person feel na MAHAL NA MAHAL mo sya without asking 4 anything in return... then you can say wow un pla ang LOVE!

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections....

Nakakatawa talaga ang love. Isa siyang napakalaking oxymoron. Lahat ng pwede mong masabi sa kanya, baliktarin mo at totoo pa rin. Ang labo diba? Pero ang linaw. Masaya magmahal. Malungkot magmahal. Di mo
naiintindihan pero naiintindihan mo. Walang rason. Maraming rason. Di mo na kaya, pero kaya mo pa rin. Masakit magmahal. Pero okey lang. Sus, ano ba talaga?! May kaibigan ako, sabi niya dati "Love is only for stupid people." Nakakatawa kasi laude ang standing niya, pero dumating ang panahon, na-in-love din ang hunghang. At ayun, tanga na siya ngayon.

Lahat kasi ng nahahawakan ng love nagiging oxymoron din. O kaya paminsan, nagiging moron lang. Hindi lang kasi basta baliktaran ang pag-ibig. Lahat ng bagay nababaligtad din niya. Lahat ng malalakas na tao,
humihina. Ang mayayabang, nagpapakumbaba. Ang mga walang pakialam, nagiging Mother Teresa. Ang mga henyo, nauubusan ng sagot. Ang malulungkot, sumasaya.

Nakakatawa talaga. Lalo na kapag dumadating siya sa mga taong ayaw na talaga magmahal. Napansin ko nga eh. Parang kung gusto mo lang ma-in-love ulit, sabihin mo lang ang magic words na "Ayoko na ma-inlove!" biglang WACHA! Ayan na siya.Nang-aasar. Magpapaasar ka naman. Di ba nakakatawa rin na pagdating sa problema ng ibang tao, ang galing galing mo? Pero 'pag problema mo na yung pinag-uusapan parang nawawalan ng saysay lahat ng ipinayo mo dun sa namomroblemang tao? Naiisip mong wala namang mali dun sa mga sinabi mo. Pero bakit parang wala ring tama? Bali-baliktad din ang nasasabi ng mga taong tinamaan ng madugong pana ng pag-ibig.

"Ngayon ko lang nalaman ganito pala. Sabi ko na eh!" "Ang sarap mabuhay. Pwede na 'ko mamatay. Now na!" At hindi lang 'yon. Ang sarap din pagtawanan ng mga taong alam naman nilang masasaktan lang sila eh magpapatihulog pa rin sa bangin ng pag-ibig. Tapos 'pag luray-luray na yung puso nila, siyempre hindi sila yung may kasalanan. Siya! "Bakit niya 'ko sinaktan?" May kasama pang pagsuntok sa pader yon, at pagbabagsak ng pinto.

Hayop talaga.
Mauubos ang buong magdamag ko kakasabi ng mga bagay na nakakatawa 'pag pag-ibig na ang pinag-usapan. Ang daming beses ko na kasi siya nakasalubong kaya masasabi ko nang eksperto na 'ko.
Pero wala pa rin akong alam. Pero ang pinakanakakatawa sa lahat ay ang katotohanang kapag gusto magpatawa ng pag-ibig, ipusta na mo na lahat ng ari-arian mo dahil siguradong ikaw ang punchline.

Nakakatawa no?

Nakakaiyak.

thats love... WEIRD!!!


P.S. Happy 31st Monthsary bhe.. luv u po..;)

Sunday...

Hazel, Me and Chai

July 13,08. Hazel's birthday celebration and Christening of his nephew Mogie. It's been a while since we get a long,an a year since I last visited there home. So as always,occasion like this is an opportunity for me to be with my friends. Me and Chai are only her visitors from college, we expected opaw to be with us but then he did not make it... tsk!tsk!... But we enjoy our lunch together with new found friend Richard (Hazel's friend on her nursing course)... We also meet her friends from high school and from her 2nd course...hehe.. as usual we talk and talk until 6 pm..hahaha... we really enjoy things like that, were we simply be our selves, laugh out load and just enjoy with each others company... in between we also play with mogie... he is so cute and you cant really help but giggle..hehe...
I'm looking forward for some more activities with them... really happy and bless to have friends like them... mmmwwwhhh... c yah when I c yah dudes..luv yah!

Happy Monthsary....♥

July 7,2008 is our 30th monthsary. We been this far praying and hoping that we would go on to what we called forever... When 7th day of month came, we usually had our arguments and as expected this month is the same thing.. we fight? why? hmmm... because he always forgot...celebrating monthsary is not his thing and I hate him for that... I could not accept his reasons...waaahhh... he always tell me that monthsary does not matter to him because he don't wanna count the days we been together cause he want me to stay with him for the rest of our lives,the only thing he would never forget is the day when I said yes and be his girl....in away he had his reason and justifications but the thing is I just can't accept it...hahah... I know he always try to remember it, I can see his sincerity when we argued... last time the only thing he said " I'm sorry and I love you "... still i keep on nagging until he get mad... waaahhhh... hahai.... We just can't take a long arguments and misunderstanding so eventually after a day or less were ok.. as if nothing happen... hahai...

Bhe, thank you for being my friend, my enemy as well, for the constant understanding and for not letting me go when I'm about to give up... With you I can always be me... Thanks for the love and the happiness you always gave me... I know that God only knows if were going to be forever... But I'm always thankful to him for giving me YOU in my life... Happy Monthsary, you will always be loved by me.. =)

my cousin's wedding

May 21,2008, Is the big day of my cousin dhetc yam. After 9 yrs of being lovers with his hobby yhul, they finally ask God's Blessings, walk in the aisle and this it! The most awaited moment of there life, there wedding day!

so happy for them: The Maid of Honor

the Brides Maids:
ug wala us lingaw saku cousin na si leng2x...

weeehhh.. picture perfect!..hihi... dili obvious na wala us lingaw...hihi..

hmmmm... saan na ang pic sa bride and groom??haha...

well2x.. watch out for more picture.. with the bride and groom na...

weehh CONGRATZ!!!!

Miss U

net surfing is one of my past time if got no task and as I read some inspirational quotes i found this one - "I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life."- it touches my soul.. I feel like crying but of course I could not do that I'm @ the office, I just keep to myself what I'm feelin' @ the moment and write to somehow ease the loneliness I felt. (sob)

I miss the two most import person in my life, my parents its almost a decade and a year pass but somehow when something reminds me of them i still could not help my self but cry in a corner and remember my happy days with them. Growing up with out them at my side is not easy as you think, though no one scold you, and your free to do what ever you want to - mind you your gonna miss the feeling of being scolded...(sob) ...till now I still wonder how my life be if their still alive. It might be worse but the best. But then I must accept the fact that there gone my tears could not bring them back.

I may not see them but they will always be part of what ever I'll be and stay forever in my heart.

Nay , Tay till we meet again...(wink).. C yah in heaven someday...weeh

I had a great weekend...~_~

side view @ Bern Berioso Beach Resort and its white sand and cottages

I spend my Sunday w/ jan2x. We went to Bern Berioso Beach Resort @ Pindasan, around 12 nn we arrive @ the place, we take our lunch and talk too much since we missed each other.. hehe..while waiting mikko and company I sleep since the air is so warm, I cant really help but sleep...weeh..The place is relaxing, you could really forget the city life for a while.. hehe..the sea is calm and peaceful.... I also love their cottages and the white sand its so comforting...love it and really love it...hehe... 4pm finally they arrive.. mikko with girlfriend iyum and remark... actually mikko's family is @ the same beach we had, their cottage is beside ours...hehe...anyway, after they eat the boys started their session... RH session..hahaha...We had a lot of fun, exchanging funny stories and jowks... when the sun is down and its about 6 pm maybe, we decided to go swimming..weeehhh...swimming!!!"super sarap mag swimming zud as in"...hehe.. after and hour, the swimming session is over...its time to take shower and change clothes then go home...around 8 pm we leave the place and jan2x take me to the bus terminal cause i need to go home to davao... its about 11pm when I arrived home...I really enjoy the day soO much..! I sleep w/ a smile on my face.. Thanks bhe...

Its not yet over, the next day(Monday), jan2x, mikko and iyum, went here to enjoy the city life..hahah...mikko buy something and its also like "despedida" to iyum since by Wednesday(its today!)..she will be going to manila to process her papers abroad...we met @ JS Gaisano by 6:30 pm, the weather is not good.. its raining...weeeh... whatever, we still stick with our plans...hehe... mikko buy a pair of shoe, after buying we then eat our dinner @ banoks Illustre... after dinner we went to peoples park and then Jack's Ridge...weeeh... we had a lot of fun although were just walking around the city w/ cold air and rain drops...we enjoy each others company and and some how it is one way of making our friendship stronger.

I really had a great weekend... spending it with someone I love so much and people close to my heart...:)

here are some of our pictures:

My Childhood Fantasy

I've been waiting to have a prince charming
Who would catch me when I'm falling
Who would wake me up after a million years of sleeping
Who would hug,kiss,care and give all his loving
Then we're gonna live happily ever after!

I thought my childhood best buddy would be my prince
We've been best friends since the day were born
His my neighbor,friend,classmate,playmate, my foe as well
We grown up and shared happy memories together
My childhood days would not be that merry and jolly w/out him.

By fate we separate ways
Never thought my feeling for him would grow
Were miles away but still my heart never fail to glow
I hope and pray that someday he would know.

I never expunge that my prince is him
I always dreamed of being w/ him
I never love anyone except him
'cause I believe at the end I'm gonna be with him.

Then one day i just wake up
and realize that not all dreams could come true
Fairy tales don't always end with a happy ending
I guess ours is not one of those tales that ends well
It is all just my childhood fantasy
Everything just happen in a right way
Just let it be.

♣...If ONE day...♣

I want....

You...♥

Devil Beside You

For almost a week now, I was kinda crazy watchin' this Taiwanese romantic TV series entitled " Devil Beside You " . At last I'm done watching it..yepeh... I was so kilig...(lol).., the story is really cute.. It combines humor and romance.. It speaks real and true love.. Despite obstacles the love they had for each other never fades... The substance of this TV Series includes friendship,hope,trust, forgiveness,happiness, promises, family, almost everything...hehe.. I wanna share it w/ u guys for you to be a little insane for a while ...wahahah

Visit this site for the episodes.

WARNING: DON'T DARE TO BLINK WHILE WATCHING..(lol)

Hope you enjoyed watching it.. As much as I do...It's nice to be inLove and be loved...hahai

Love..♥

What is love? ... I, myself doesn't really know what 's the exact meaning of love... I've read lots of quotations, stories, articles about love.., all comes up with different ideas and meaning...Love is mysterious, a feeling, thought, magical,difficult, joyous, and a lot more... But this quote strikes me most in what is love is all about - "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. - 1 Corinthians 13:5-7" - in other word love is unconditional...like the love GOD gave to us.

Love maybe is undefined but it can be real........we can share it and show it to GOD, our family, friends, special someone, to all the people we've met and even those people who hurt us.... Love is truly amazing we don't know the true meaning of it but we can feel and express it....♥♥♥...that's the mystery of love....

To my family-nanay,tatay,dhetc,satc,manong,manang,ate - thank u for sharing the love w/ me...I'm may not that expressive but truly I do love all of you guys in any means...☺

To my tita,tito,nanay,tatay,auntie,uncle, yoyo,manoy,manay,cousins, pamangkins - you are all an inspiration to me... the love you shown me gives me strength and motivation to move forward in my life...☺

To my friends childhood bestbudds, high school berks, and of course my college best friends <tuapoy joy,tuapoy sheena, pearl my tf, hazel lou, chai, amiemot,maeann,lyka,bambi, au2x, dude shiela,amor, opaw,rr,dodong,dork,ongoy,kambing,butiki,baboy..heheeh,etc..> - I'm so happy I meet all of you guys, you help me discover who really I'am...and let me feel the true and real meaning of love in friendship....☺

To my special someone jan2x a.k.a payat ..(lol) super thank you for all the love u share with me, for accepting me as I'am and for loving me with out expecting anything in return.. you're truly a god's gift to me... i love u much...

To GOD my idol thank you for allowing me to experience all this things and for showing me how to love unconditionally... You're my everything....☺

To ALL don't be afraid to LOVE....keep loving unconditionally....we only have one life so make the best out of it... ☺